anyone wanna take in a fishnerd so hes out of his current living condition?
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#1 This is untrue. There's more to it then this. I've known highly successful high school drop outs. If there's one thing I've learned during my many years of college is that it alone will not get you success.
#2 This is someone who is ready to leave "home" and seeking a room-mate. If you were not ready to move on yet on this age, I see no reason to project this on to someone else.
thanks eupterus i am ready to just want to seek roomates with the same hobby as me and same love for fish as me
#1 I did not say that knowledge was the only way to success. It is one route if you will. It's no secret that majority of people getting & holding jobs these days are people who have furthered their education some because its a demand and some others just by choice. I also know many people who have found success in their lives and did not graduate high school (my father being one) but even he told me to continue to learn, build & and better myself. That is the message I was sending to the OP not that the only way he could survive in this world was to finish school. Perhaps I should have gone into greater detail.
#2 I was only speaking from experience. I left my house at 17 and dropped out of school partly because I had a rough relationship with my mother. I also felt that I was being nagged and controlled and I left on that basis alone which was a mistake. I later realized that it took a lot more than I initially thought it would and I needed the support and guidence of my loved ones.
EITHER WAY- I wish you the best of luck and a very merry christmas!
#2 I was only speaking from experience. I left my house at 17 and dropped out of school partly because I had a rough relationship with my mother. I also felt that I was being nagged and controlled and I left on that basis alone which was a mistake. I later realized that it took a lot more than I initially thought it would and I needed the support and guidence of my loved ones.
EITHER WAY- I wish you the best of luck and a very merry christmas!
ok heres a LONG resume:
im not allowed to take showers everyday only once a week * grannys rules she hasnt tooken one in a month *
im not alowed to handle my own money ( again granny takes control of that and im tired of it, if she could let me handle ALL my money i would prove her wrong on so many levels )
im not allowed to use a heater for my tank ( well using one right now but without anyone knoing besides my 2 cousins which also think the tank is cold without it so i have support from thom on that ) but thats not the main issue
i and my and get in so many fights everyday we put WW 1 and 2 to shame
my aunt is holding mine and my moms stuff hostage and i want the stuff BACK its not HERS its MINE but yet my granny told me to leave it alone and ill get half her money to replace it ( 2 grand i think i heard her say ) but thats not the point the money will NOT replace my mom stuff
i and my granny are starting to kinda fight cause she thinks shes always right and then my grandpa jumps in and sides with her.
on a few occaians my granny has threaten to make me incompitent of living on my own ( how the HELLo does she now if i am or not!!! i never lived on my own yet )
wen i goe to my friends house my granpa gets irritated and sometimes says * are u 2 *** togther or sumthing jeez leave him alone * and yet my friend is the one that calls and wants me to come over
i have to give 5 dollars to buy dog food to my aunt that i dont even own ( a dog that is ) i love minnie but shes my aunts dog but yet i treat her as my own tho
ill write more in a lil bit my hand hurts
im not allowed to take showers everyday only once a week * grannys rules she hasnt tooken one in a month *
im not alowed to handle my own money ( again granny takes control of that and im tired of it, if she could let me handle ALL my money i would prove her wrong on so many levels )
im not allowed to use a heater for my tank ( well using one right now but without anyone knoing besides my 2 cousins which also think the tank is cold without it so i have support from thom on that ) but thats not the main issue
i and my and get in so many fights everyday we put WW 1 and 2 to shame
my aunt is holding mine and my moms stuff hostage and i want the stuff BACK its not HERS its MINE but yet my granny told me to leave it alone and ill get half her money to replace it ( 2 grand i think i heard her say ) but thats not the point the money will NOT replace my mom stuff
i and my granny are starting to kinda fight cause she thinks shes always right and then my grandpa jumps in and sides with her.
on a few occaians my granny has threaten to make me incompitent of living on my own ( how the HELLo does she now if i am or not!!! i never lived on my own yet )
wen i goe to my friends house my granpa gets irritated and sometimes says * are u 2 *** togther or sumthing jeez leave him alone * and yet my friend is the one that calls and wants me to come over
i have to give 5 dollars to buy dog food to my aunt that i dont even own ( a dog that is ) i love minnie but shes my aunts dog but yet i treat her as my own tho
ill write more in a lil bit my hand hurts
O and i pay 400 bucks a month ( 300 for rent and 100 for food which i cant even go with to pick out a few i want which is stupid ) just to sleep in the living room.
If you lived in my area I'd take you up on that right now. I'm moving out on my own for the first time in a month and none of my friends are looking for a place so I'm stuck on my own. Beware though... SSI really isn't that much. Mine isn't, and it's the maximum amount allowed in FL. If it weren't for my parents helping out, I wouldn't be able to live on my own.
Edit: I can relate with a crappy home life. Right now I live in a group home and come visit my parents on weekends, half my family is mentally ill and unmedicated half the time so there is a lot of emotional abuse and violence. I have completed the program at the group home and going back to my parent's house isn't an option for me.
Edit: I can relate with a crappy home life. Right now I live in a group home and come visit my parents on weekends, half my family is mentally ill and unmedicated half the time so there is a lot of emotional abuse and violence. I have completed the program at the group home and going back to my parent's house isn't an option for me.
thanks liz and yea wen i move out moving back here isnt an opiotion either. if i wanted to then my granny said she will take me to court first so she can prve me incompitent shes mean like that... but i wont move back anyways lol
she thinks the water bill will go sky rocket high ( its less then 100.00 right now ) and she herself dont take showers only once a month and she stinks ( no offecne ) i told her takin showers once a day is healthy but bleh she dont believe me
