Merry Christmas Livebearer - I've just finished reading this thread (and have read your other previous threads) and I just want to say I'm sorry for your predicament. But as mentioned, there are always two sides to a story and I don't feel good being completely upset with your relatives without knowing their side of the story.
However, I don't know how far you are from Milwaukee, but I did a quick search on Craigslist for you in Milwaukee because it is one of the main cities in Wisconsin = better chances of you finding a job and came across this ad:
http://milwaukee.craigslist.org/sub/1483137972.html
It appears to be in your range and the ad poster seems to be in desperate need of roommates and is a definite animal lover. The one bummer is she does not like cigarettes I believe, but I feel that cigarettes are something you should be able to remove from your lifestyle if you're that desperate to get out of your current conditions.
Good luck and I hope 2010 is a better year for you.