Wow, that's really sad. Funny... but it's a shame someone with their own LFS would be so uninformed!!
I am running a high tech planted tank myself, Co2 runs while lights are on, and oxygen airstone at night. Taking it off soon just because of it is visible in the tank. Co2 during the photo period will allow it to be used by plants, making its own O2 in the system. Oxygen during the night so the Co2 in the water is off gassed just to prevent fish from being sufficated. The oxygen did nothing against the plants. The guy at your LFS may have meant that the oxygen running during the photo period was off gassing any Co2, keeping plants from having any?