It's amazing how long this thread is already. And No, there is no way I am going to read it all so forgive me if I rehash some things already said.
Some personal thoughts... Water changes are about keeping TDS of all types at healthy controlled levels. It is also about keeping hormones at healthy levels as well.
Some things to think about. Where do you find fish living in natural population densities like you find in an aquarium of any type? You pretty much don't unless you start talking about drying up water holes. The population density plays a large role on how the ecosystem deals with nutrients (aka TDS). Not to mention the continual addition of more TDS via food. It's not like a natural ecosystem where the food that the fish eat is produced by the surroundings. We daily add food and nutrients to the tank but they don't go away - unless you have a planted tank where they can be transformed into plants that are clipped and removed.
When a tank water level drops it is due to evaporation of H2O. When you refill it, unless you are using pure RO water, you are adding more TDS.