Ok, so recently my green sunfish has been beating the tar out of my Jack Dempsey so I decided to get a Convict cichlid. I am hoping this will stop my dempsey from getting beaten on so much. I was just wondering wether I should get a male or a female. I like the coloring of a female but I think a male would be able to stand up against the green sunfish better. Can anyone tell me one would be better?