3 weeks ago i got a 55 gal. tank as a gift, not knowing anything about fish tanks or cycling i went out and bought 15 fish and threw them in, stupid, stupid, stupid, then i go online to learn all about my new fish(a little to late) i realized after reading all these posts i totally messed up, i went out and bought tests and started testing my water everyday, my ammonia for the last 3 weeks has fluccuated between .25 and the highest it has been is 2.0, nitrites between .25 and .50, i have been doing 20% water changes almost every other day for the last 2 weeks,when the ammonia was over 1.0, i also tried cycle and amquel before reading here they wont help, about a week ago went to my moms house who has an established tank and grabbed about a cup of her gravel, tested her water first, all 0's , and put in my tank, in the meantime about a week and a half ago 3 neons and a platy died, 11 fish left, corys, gourami, pleco, loaches,a frog, called my lfs and they told me to put about 10 gals of my moms cycled water and add her filter to my tank, no more water changes, no more amquel, did that today, now about 8 hours later ammonia is at 2, nitrites at .50, the thing i realized today is that after 3
weeks my nitrites have not risen at all which means my cycle has stuck, i am so frustrated i actually started crying today, i love animals, fish to and dont want any fish to suffer or die because i didnt do my research before i bought fish, all i want to do now is to do this right for my fishes sake, my temp is about 78, i have 2 air bubble things, i have been feeding less, what more can or should i do also is there a point ppm wise(1.0-8.0) in ammonia and nitrite that you HAVE to water change, assuming i shouldnt be changing the water, or just ride it out without water changes no matter how high it gets, fish be damned?
weeks my nitrites have not risen at all which means my cycle has stuck, i am so frustrated i actually started crying today, i love animals, fish to and dont want any fish to suffer or die because i didnt do my research before i bought fish, all i want to do now is to do this right for my fishes sake, my temp is about 78, i have 2 air bubble things, i have been feeding less, what more can or should i do also is there a point ppm wise(1.0-8.0) in ammonia and nitrite that you HAVE to water change, assuming i shouldnt be changing the water, or just ride it out without water changes no matter how high it gets, fish be damned?