This is an older picture of Tango. She's about 2 years in this picture. She's about 10 now.
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Thank you for all of your comments. I have read and discussed all of them with my wife.
I agree that perhaps, just a straight vet visit would be the best place to start. The vet is relatively familiar with her (having pulled her teeth) and may be able to suggest a kitty Thorazine or something.
Please understand, It's not about money or not considering Tango's feelings. The other cats have getting along with Xander pretty well and he's learning to be very gentle with them. He does get excited sometimes and all the cats would prefer to run than mess with him.
I am a cat lover and always have been. I'm the kid that was always bringing strays home. Now that I own my home, I've had all the stray's in my neighborhood fixed. I want what's best for Tango, but my son must come first.
Thank you all.
Please don't argue on my account. Thank you all for presenting your position and your pros and cons for each. The decisions lie solely with me and my family. I'll let you know what has been decided... when we decide.
Thanks for the pic ogre.. Very cool looking cat. I don't envy you your position but I do believe you are on the right track from another pet lovers point of view.. (I was also the kid who brought the strays home, at one time my mother started calling the authorities if she saw a stray because she didn't want me to find it
I am hoping your vet can find out what is going on, I wish you the best and will include you in my prayers.
God Bless
Mark