feeling low, considering throwing in the towel

kelly82

AC Members
Jun 1, 2007
1,108
0
0
Lincolnshire, UK
i love my goldfish, i really do, but my tank looks terrible. they chew up any plants i put in, i cant find any realistic looking silk plants. the fish are hanging about not doing much unless its feeding time,apart from the commons who are swimming up and down the tank glass as if theres no room to move away from it, i think probably because theres not much to do as they destroy everything i put in there. im feeling low today anyway, but am considering selling the lot. its just such a mess. i hate it. nothing looks nice in there, even the fish seem fed up. the fish are all healthy, they just seem...bored :( and to be honest, my husband doesnt share in my interest at all, which is starting to get to me aswell. all he wants are bala sharks, its the only fish he has ever been interested in. im considering selling my goldies to get some balas so he may actually like the tank and pay attention to it.
 
Seems to be a bit of "new year blues" thing happening here at AC -- sorry to hear you're down on your fish.....I guess I would suggest considering....

+ Looking at other tanks and seeing if you can make improvements that will help your fish and help you have more fun
+ Upgrade to a larger tank (more options, plus kind of fun to go BIGGER)

...I was having a similar problem with my land hermit crabs, but got some good advice that helped me recapture the joy -- hope you can too!
 
I'm sorry that you're going through a bad patch at the moment. I can understand your feelings about the goldies. Sometimes I spend several hours tankscaping the tank and then have the head gardener goldfish tell me that isn't where he wanted the plants. It is discouraging.

Do you have munchable plants in the tank (floaters) as well as those you don't want them to eat? Mine have left the plants alone since I put in "expendable" ones.

Don't throw in the towel, yet. Give it a couple of days. I'm sure that some inspiration will come to you :)
 
Seems to be a bit of "new year blues" thing happening here at AC -- sorry to hear you're down on your fish.....I guess I would suggest considering....

+ Looking at other tanks and seeing if you can make improvements that will help your fish and help you have more fun
+ Upgrade to a larger tank (more options, plus kind of fun to go BIGGER)

...I was having a similar problem with my land hermit crabs, but got some good advice that helped me recapture the joy -- hope you can too!

i cant fit bigger into my home unfortunately, though i think 6 feet x 2 feet x 2 feet is considerably large to start with ;) not that i wouldnt love to go 8 x 3 x 3!

I'm sorry that you're going through a bad patch at the moment. I can understand your feelings about the goldies. Sometimes I spend several hours tankscaping the tank and then have the head gardener goldfish tell me that isn't where he wanted the plants. It is discouraging.

Do you have munchable plants in the tank (floaters) as well as those you don't want them to eat? Mine have left the plants alone since I put in "expendable" ones.

Don't throw in the towel, yet. Give it a couple of days. I'm sure that some inspiration will come to you :)

its all the spawning thats really pulling the whole apart, since i planted the plants in small glass bowls and then covered the gravel in them with larger stones its not been too much of an issue, and ive found my goldies really arent keen on cobomba so i have been using that. any and all other plants i put in there are ripped apart and eaten within 10-15 minutes of adding to the tank, so far these include eldodea, crypts, swords (they adore these and eat them so its just a bunch of stems within an hour or so of planting) ive even added duck weed by the handful and its gone by the time i get back with another handful from the tub outside.

ive never known anything like it, i feed them 3 times a day, and they get a mixed diet of saki hikari for breakfast, either saki hikari or frozen brine shrimp/daphnia/blood worm for dinner, and peas if they had pellets for dinner, or pellets if they had frozen for dinner. i also bring in live daphnia from the garden tub too which they love, but it lasts seconds.

i have gone to the extent of bringing in a water lily tuber from the garden, i cleaned it up a little, and have sunk it in the tank. at first every leaf it threw off the goldfish would rip apart and tear it of. i dont know how lilies grow but this one has now started to throw off several at a time and they are staying curled up, so far the goldies havent managed to eat these but they are only a few inches tall.

i want some green height in the tank if that makes sense. ive seen several on you tube which are like beautiful green jungles with goldfish in there. mine is like a baron landscape, its boring for me and the fish.

i have considered dropping the water level a bit and adding some water lettuce, but im pretty sure the little buggers would then eat all the roots :huh: mine seem to eat everything faster than it can grow.

Just a little fyi... check this link out it talks about the most depressing day of the year
(which incidently just passed), maybe those scientist are onto something.....

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6847012/

think they may have something there, though i suffer with depression regularly. i also get very bored with things after a while, hence this tank has been used for goldfish, large barbs, a beautiful planted tropical community (i adored this, it was gorgeous, but we went on holiday and my in laws took care of the tank, when i came back i had multiple rotting dead fish, old food lying on the bottom of the tank, plants dead and dying, and i couldnt get it back to how it was) and now its back to goldfish. if i had the room i would have several tanks this size and have a planted community in 1, some large fish for my husband in another, and goldfish in another. my house is too small.
 
hi!

well have you tried adding a lot of plants at a time? Cause than the goldies cannot concentrate on only eating one so the plants have time to recover...

I have common goldies in my tank and the tank is quite heavily planted with crypts, anubias, swords and a lot of unknown plants... what I did was buy 3 larger plants, and 100 smaller plants (from online shop, it was 15 pounds) and put them in the tank the same day. But I did keep the goldies in my smaller tank for 3 days so the plants had time to root. then I put my goldies in the tank any yes, they may nibble at some plants and they did destroy some of them but the majority is still there...

And maybe they are lacking vegies/fiber in their diet? try feeding them spirulina flakes/pelets every so often. I do but of course I also feed them goldfish flakes and granules, bloodworms and all the usual stuff but goldies really need a lot of plant based foods so they don't destroy all your plants.

Anyhow, I am not an expert on goldies, those are just things that worked for me and my goldies. Cause when I first got goldies I only put in 3 small anubias and they were always floating and every young leaf was destroyed very fast...
 
ive added lots of plants all at the same time, added big plants and small and cutting from some of their favourite to eat smaller ones so they had something to go after, they have peas and cuttings from plants several times a week and are on good quality pellet food too. i think apart from growing super strong leather thick leaved plants i dont stand much chance of having any in there. the little buggers are constantly on the search for food :nilly: driving me nuts!

i cant add them to another tank while the plants root as i dont have another tank big enough, they would need twice daily or more water changes to keep the water from turning toxic and it would take longer than 3 days for them to develop a decent root system im sure.
 
id post pics to see if anyone has any ideas but cant find the right lead to connect to my phone...typical :(
 
oh and forgot to mention, on top of having all the plant issues, this morning i had to euthanise my biggest fantail, for a while now she had been gulping air, and she couldnt get down to the bottom of the tank sometimes. i fed peas for a few days and she would eat them and have big gassy poops but still float a lot. after tea last night, i found her floating listlessly on the surface on her side, she would thrash around and only go down about 2 inches before bobbing back up again like a cork. i did get her from a dodgy pet shop so i had no idea on how she was kept before that. i decided that rather than carry on and let her stress more, i broke out the clove oil.

:tombstone: Bossfish, the tank isnt the same without you.

xmas 156.JPG

xmas 156.JPG
 
AquariaCentral.com