I'm completely dumb founded because I never said 125 would house one of these forever. If he grows full growth in 1 year (impossible takes 3 years to completely get full size even if the tank was 1,000,000,000 gallons) I will buy a bigger tank to help fit him. I'm not some novice idiot who is going to torture a fish...I've went to multiple breeders sites, contacted a petstore guy that knows alot about rays and read the actual facts on rays through like dictionary.com and other sites like so as well. They said minimum tank needs to be 6 1/2 x 18" and that will house retics, hystrix and scopina rays. So again, this is temporary just for a year or two.
Another thing, lets say the ray gets big and grows to be 14". You recommended a 2' wide tank to house him once he gets full size. Well that only gives him 10" of play room....if I buy one that is 4"-5" that gives him 13" of play room....so what you said doesn't really make since now does it? It all depends on the size of the ray from what I was told...if he does get bigger I will buy another tank that would house him or at worst i'd sell him.
I appologize if I seem arguementative it's just frusterating that I've called around, talked to breeders and looked up the facts and everywhere I look says 125 gallon is fine for a starter tank...then u guys basically say im stupid and should never do that. But within 2 years you need to move into bigger...if you can actually find a site that proves this wrong PLEASE let me know. I'm not saying you guys are completely wrong maybe its just me....but I want to know who cites the information you are getting because a forum post from someone else doesn't mean anything to me. If you read some of the comments on here you'd be shocked. I saw a thread where a guy said a 200-300 gallon tank would house a big shark....so again if you could just send me links to other informational sites that'd be awesome!~!
Sorry again and I appreciate your help and comments~!~
haha, you tell him A.D.