well, i have been studying this fish for a time....and well i say female cause females have stronger blue reflects and dark fins, also the fins dont have any color, male fins have very nice n bright colors. just like my male have a look
if you guys both turn your flashes off and have a bright enought tank light your picture will turn out a lot nicer and more true to what you see. Oh keep the room cark to or your get reflections on your glass