help me with my water, please.

Well, depending on the unit, RO wastes a gallon or more for each gallon purified. The amount used for your tank is a drop in the bucket, so to speak, compared to showering, washing dishes, etc.

Nonetheless, some battles aren't worth fighting, especially with a mother. If your problem is contaminants coming in from the tap, you have a couple of options. One is to fill a section of PVC pipe with activated carbon and run the water through it. You could also try a bag of carbon in the sump or skimmer. One other option, which is what I did, was to buy RO water. Our local co-op had a system, and I'm sure you can find something nearby.
 
I can by RO water by the gallon at my lfs, I'm going to be getting a skimmer once after i move the over flow into the back of the tank and i might get rid of my rio power head, for maxi jets... and put them on timers, but a skimmer is high on my list (i get distracted by new ideas constantly.)
 
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