i agree with everyone, but you need to do a water change as soon as possible. rinse with clean water any chemical filtration (don't do anything with biofiltration, the white things in your canister filter) and run everything the same untill you get more live rock. but of cause, upgrading the lights is the next step after the water change. do 25% of water change or so. oh, and before lights get there, feed your anemone every day if possible. the water change should help the anemone to come around for you to feed it. good luck