1. How do I hook the ugf up so it will be reverse flow undergravel?
The easiest and IMO the best way is to use penguin powewrheads penguin makes a ready made filter kit for reverse flow, and the powerhead is made to turn around rather than switch motor direction. other systems switch motor direction and that is not as effecient.
2. If I do a rfug then do I ever really need to clean it out at all?
Water changes are still necessary, and light vcaccuming if you don't like the look of mulm laying on top of your substrate. I have two tanks that get no vaccuming whatsoever, and there is usually a light dusting of mulm visible on the gravel.
3. How much gravel do should I lay over the rfug filter?
1" minimum, if you plan to plant you can go as deep as 3"
4. If I put my hand on the gravel will I be able to feel water pushing out of the gravel; wouldn't that bother the bottom dwelling fish?
Nope, there is very little noticable or "felt" current created by a UGF or RFUG set up despite the large water turnover rate.
5. Do you find that it evenly spreads out the water flow coming through the gravel, or are some areas of the gravel cleaner than others?
For the most part the flow is even, decor and plant roots will slow it in some areas, but there is still flow through all parts of the substrate as far as my experiments indicate.
6. I'm assuming that you do a rfug filter useing 2 power heads. What size power heads would I need for a 60gal, a 120gal?
I personally run a bit more flow than most Foks do. For a 60g I would run two penguin 1140's, most folks would probably run two penguin 660's. For a 120g I would run 4-6 1140's depending on tank dimensions. my 115g is a 48"x18" tank and has 4 1140's running on it. Higher flow definately runs better IMO and IME but low flow works well enough. The more motors you submerge in a tank, the more heat is created. at some point you have too much heat and you run into warmer water than you may want to have. additionally if you run other internal filters as RTR often does you have less margin for bigger powerheads. In my case, I run mostly HOB's which don't have the side effect of adding heat. Right now MY 115 runs 4 1140 pengiuns on the RFUG, 1 550 pengiun on the co2 reactor, and two additional powerheads (I forget model and size) for current. it also has an eheim aquaball filter running in the tank, and I have yet to see heat issues. In smaller tanks the heat becomes more of a side effect with high flow. I haven't yet put together watts of motor per gallon type specs to give you any real guidelines on where the limits might be.
dave