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Man's search for family ends in grief
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LA CONCHITA, California (AP) -- Jimmie Wallet went out for ice cream, and when he got back, everyone and everything he had left behind were gone.

On Wednesday, he identified the bodies of his wife and three of his daughters, pulled from a tangle of homes smashed by a mudslide.

No one lost more than Wallet in Monday's mudslide, which has killed at least 10 people in this oceanside community. And, driven by the frantic hope of finding his family, no one was as quick to claw through the debris and help pull out survivors.

Wallet dug for hours in the rain around where he thought the family might be. He helped rescue two people before he stopped and waited, smoking cigarettes as friends stopped by to embrace him. Early Wednesday, after 36 hours, his wait ended.

His wife, Mechelle, was the first to be found. Around 2 a.m., firefighters and several of Wallet's friends carried her to the makeshift morgue at the town's gas station. Wallet went in and identified her, then returned to the porch of a peach stucco house where he had been staying, put up his feet and sat without a word.

Two hours later, his youngest daughter, 2-year-old Paloma, was taken out on a stretcher. Her sister Raven, 6, was next, soon followed by 10-year-old Hannah.

The three girls were found next to each other. Rescue workers standing atop the ruins silently leaned on their shovels.

"They never had a chance to get out," said Scott Hall, a battalion chief with Ventura County Fire Department. "It appeared they were sitting on a couch unaware of the slide."

His fourth daughter, a 16-year-old, had been in nearby Ventura when the slide happened.

Six people were still listed as missing in the mudslide.

Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger viewed the damage by helicopter Wednesday. "It's extraordinary the way people have come together here from the moment the mudslides hit," he said.

The rainstorm that triggered the slide continued to bedevil the West, causing floods that destroyed houses in Arizona in Utah, washed out roads and forcing dozens of people from their homes. No serious injuries were reported, but one man was missing in Utah.

As workers searched for the missing in La Conchita, Wallet said in interviews with The Associated Press that he moved to this free-spirited beach town 70 miles northwest of Los Angeles from Ventura. The family lived in a household of 10, including Charles Womack, a 51-year-old musician also killed in the mudslide.

Wallet, a 37-year-old construction worker who has thick dreadlocks and is nicknamed "Gator," said they played music and hung out on an old bus with a rooftop patio. Engraved over his home's front gate were the words "Music is love."

Residents of La Conchita said Wallet sang with his kids, took them to the beach and walked around town with Hannah on his shoulders. His wife stayed home with the children and was "powerful, such a rock," said Vera Long, who lived three houses down.

"They were incredibly beautiful children. They had these sparkling, intelligent, deeply soulful eyes. Just incredibly loving," Long said. "The only comfort I can derive is that they were all together."

Jimmie Wallet had been returning home Monday when days of soaking rain triggered the mudslide. He watched the torrent curve toward his block and ran home, only to find it smothered. Officials said the house was broken apart, pushed for about 100 yards and covered with about six feet of mud.

Instinct took over and he began to dig. Fire officials credited him with helping map out likely locations of destroyed homes.

"The most frustrating part was that he couldn't do more," said fire Capt. Conrad Quintana.

When Wallet returned late Monday night with six friends, rescue workers let them dig five hours in the rain around where they thought the family might be.

After leaving to rest Tuesday morning, Wallet returned to dig, but was stopped by authorities and handcuffed after he crossed police lines. Rescue workers had changed shifts and did not recognize him. He was released after authorities realized who he was.
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http://www.cnn.com/2005/US/01/12/mudslide.family.killed.ap/index.html

Donations are being taken at:
Wallet Memorial Fund
Santa Barbara Bank & Trust
Box 60645
Santa Barbara 93160
or call (888) 400-7228
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I hate to see such horrible thing happen to such seemingly good people!
I especially hate to see things like this happen to children.

It really makes me think about how people can believe so faithfully that there really is a god!
 
turns out the exact same thing happend in the same town 9 years ago.
600k tons of mud slid into the town...
 
The fourth daughter was out of town, and therefore safe... thank god for small favors.

Things like the tsunami, mudslides, babies getting cancer, old people suffering with alzheimers, and people being killed by drunk drivers all make me doubt god's existence... what kind of a god allows these things to happen?

My aunt says He (note capital "h") makes everything happen for a reason, and while that may be true, I don't buy it. It's sucky.

Everything happens for a reason, yes. FATE. We are 'pre-wired'. It's known what is going to happen to us, to our lives, the course and path we take, long before we are born. We make choices daily, yes. But they have no bearing on anything, they don't change anything, because the outcome is predetermined.

If I prayed, I'd say that I will keep this man in my prayers. But since I don't, I will think good thoughts for him and his one remaining daughter.

:(

~Tara
 
I don't think that. I think it is all chaos. There is no real meaning.

All of life is merely chance.
 
dwayne said:
Everything happens for a reason, yes. FATE. We are 'pre-wired'. It's known what is going to happen to us, to our lives, the course and path we take, long before we are born. We make choices daily, yes. But they have no bearing on anything, they don't change anything, because the outcome is predetermined.


~Tara

I also am a strong believer of fate, though I believe in my God.
I envision life as a journey down a road, you don't know whats ahead but you keep going to find out. While on this journey you are not allowed to stray very far from the center of your predetermined route. I am a firm believer that when your time is up theres nothing anyone can do. I think we are all here to achieve a specific goal unknown to us and when we accomplish that goal we pass on.

As a former paramedic I have seen people live that should not have as well as people die when it does not make sense.

Why do all these horrible things occur? I can only hope to find that answer at the end of my journey.

I hope all of those affected by the recent world events are able to find their peace someday.
 
ecvjohn said:
As a former paramedic I have seen people live that should not have as well as people die when it does not make sense.

Why do all these horrible things occur? I can only hope to find that answer at the end of my journey.
I beleive at end of our journey, things will be explained as to why they happened.
 
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