why do you think you need to lower hardness? Calcium is actually good for fish as it helps reduce the loss of salts through their gills. I have fish that are from soft, acidic water (dojo loaches, glass catfish) and they are thriving in my hard (GH = 14 degrees or 245 ppm) slightly alkaline (pH = 8.0) water.
As far as I know, hardness is really only a concern when one is trying to breed soft water fishes such as rams and wild discus.