Water changes are a necessary evil. Before I had my son I faithfully did weekly water changes, fixing decorations (like my bubble wall that comes unsuctioned etc...). After I had him I was like UGH, water change day. For the first few months after he was born, I did water changes like every 2-3 weeks... it was a well established tank and I didn't lose any fish, but still that's somewhat of a stretch.
Then I realized that pets (be it fish, dog, cats etc...) need humans to take care of them, much like babies need grown ups to take care of them. That put a whole new spin on my fishies.
I HATE doing water changes still to this day. I have to go down to my basement and drag up my python, do the change, then drag it back downstairs. But I do the water changes when I'm home alone (well, the baby is in bed, but no hubby). I turn the music up loud (baby can't hear anything when his door is shut), and just kind of rock out and take care of my tank.
The past 3 months I've found my tank to be very relaxing. I think it all came together once my son started going to bed at a reasonable time (by 8:30) and my having some "spare" me-time to work on my hobby... usually Fridays are my fish days, and Tuesdays are my scrapbooking days!
~Tara