I just went to my lfs and bought a kenyi (Pseudotropheus lombardoi) that is about 3 inches long about the same size as the female that i have in the tank. right when I put him in the tank the female began tearing him to shreds. Once he was almost dead I had a chance to get him into a large net (about 10 inches) which I am now leaving him in at the top of the tank. The Female was well established in the tank and tore off most of his fins. When can I release him back into the tank or can I? the tank is 55 gallons and I also got two pandani (pseudotropheus socolofi) while I was at the store which are substantially smaller then the other and they are getting along fine with the other fish so why him?