+1 to the blackwater thing...i don't keep my tank full full full blackwater but i do keep a very tannin rich environment, if you look through the tank lengthwise the water is a deep burgundy, orange, tea color. pH is low, and the water is abnormally soft coming out of the tap. GH is 1 or less (hardness tests have a hard time on my water).
I keep mine with angels, pricilla tetras, paleatus corys, habrosus corys, various snails and shrimp and a L204 panaque male. The Panaque is very very mature and dominant so i may need to move snowflake (my L183) to another tank and get another L204 lady...but at this point since snowflake is still juvie (about 3 inches) they share caves without even blinking at eachother.
EDIT: just reading over this again...i forgot to mention...there is an element to the caving behavior (with my panaque, not my L183, I will have to see if the L183 acquires the behavior in adulthood) where he simply doesn't want to be seen by me, there is a nook in the cave that will completely hide him and although he normally doesn't go into it, when he's nervous or i'm doing maintenance i won't see him for 12-24 hours. It sucks for me when i'm trying to show off my centerpiece fish but i think it helps him not feel stressed continuously which increases life expectancy.
All of that is to say; make some tight cozy caves for him to hide from everybody (including you) and feel totally alone and secluded, i think it helps them.