Yeah, the reefs in Florida are trashed. I have been diving in a lot of the Caribbean, and places like Pennekamp look like a wasteland. The overcollection of live rock (apparently it was really out of control until they banned it) probably contributed, but runoff, pollution and overfishing probably did more.
I was very pleased, though, to see so much coral, including some nice stands of acropora, off Key West.
Anyway, my gut feeling is that the aquacultured stuff is better for the environment, but I haven't seen much data either way. Part fo the problem is that collection sites in the Pacific aren't very closely monitored.
Ben,
I keep thinking about the whole "package" thing, and I'm beginning to come around to your point of view. What I want for the new tank is the rock and the sand (and maybe a few extra porcelain crabs), but don't want all the hermits, cukes and peppermint shrimp, plus the condy anemone. I may just order the rock and sand separately.