Losing my otos--is this normal?

My guess is they are probably hiding or there is something in your wood that they are not taking to.

My personal experience is that oto's are very hardy -- more so than most people give them credit for. One of mine survived for over three hours in the mouth of a baby Ropefish who couldn't swallow him. He was spit out and has recovered beautifully (the ropefish were of course moved.)
 
Ottos are generally small and fragile if you read up all the posts about them.

But don't worry, they really may be just hiding on you. I had one that vanished for over a year. Found him one day just hanging on one of the stems of my plants. The others that I had may be hiding as well. In my case I have a forest of crypts which makes it hard to tell if I lost a small fish when no corpse is found.

BTW, the one that I found I haven't seen for a long time again.
 
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