Well a few days ago i purchased my first male con, hes almost full grown, probably around 4". And yesterday i got him a female, now i took the male out of his tank for a few hours to let the female get used to her new surroundings. So when she looked comfortable with her new tank i put the male back in. Now i have a 20g tank with 2 flower pots partially filled with gravel. My concern is that he seems to be agressive towards her, i dont think hes bittin her but just kinda chasin her around the tank from time to time. He kinda butts her with his head. Is this normal? Will the feamale become more comfortable with the male? and over time will the male come to except her?