I've only had mine for a little over 2 weeks, and I already get the sense he wants out. He's in one of those small hexagon tanks. I think it's a 1.66 gallon. Walmart has 5 gallons with a biowheel for only $30 around here. I'm thinking about getting him that. As for the feeding, mine does make me feel like he's starving. I've probably been overfeeding him. I give him breakfast lunch and dinner of 4 hikari beta bio-gold. The package says you can feed 2-3 times daily, but I think it's a marketing ploy to increase product sales.
Heh, I feed Jakers once a day. Four frozen bloodworms, or a small amount of frozen brine shrimp with a dropper, or a VERY small pinch of daphnia, or a couple of dried tubifex worms. Two to three times is a little much
Four Hikari a day should be fine.
What's up with my betta flaring his gills and bum rushing the tank everytime I try to stare at him? Am I pissing him off?
The flaring and bum rushing is a normal behavior. That's what they do
They are treating you like they would any other betta male.
If you get a small mirror and hold it up for them to see themselves, they'll do the same thing. They think there's another male betta there.
He'll calm down after a while. Do you make faces at him? I can get Troy to flare at me if I make faces. Otherwise, he doesn't flare anymore
Roan