My Dog

it is tough S4lly..... *sigh* VERY tough..... I mean I know the intention is admiralble and everything but I don't know if I'll ever be able to do it again, it's so much more painful..... however, what happens when the time comes again that the decision is mine, things could be different.
 
Update

Thanx to everybody. We took Zoe to the vet this morning and the vet told us to give it about three more days to see if any improvements are made. She should let us know by that time whether or not it's tie for her to go. If we were to try putting her on IV at this point, we'd only have a 25% chance of having her recover. However, if she does better within the next few days those chances increase. She has been able to keep down the fluids we've been giving her, and has urinated a few times. There are a few other good signs our vet noticed, but until this sunday we won't know exactly where she'll be health wise. She did stand up today, and has started walking a little more, which needless to say surprised me and mom. It gives me hope somehow, seeing that she still wants to fight. And the doc also told us that he had an older cat that had the same amount of damage to its body from kidney disease. He originally thought it wouldn't make it when he did the IV treatments, but the cat ended up living five more years. Even if this is a small chance for Zoe, it gives me hope that maybe something more is possible for her if things get better over the next few days. My dad and I also talked and got our feelings out, so now, we all know where things stand and he knows what we have to do if things don't get better. I was being to hard on him before, and unfortunately we're both stubborn, so we clash sometimes. I love him, and I know this is hard for him too. He hides the hurt though. The last dog we had was like another child to him, and when he had to be put down, my mother told me that dad broke down pretty bad. That all happened in Key West, FL, were we used to live. I had already been staying up in the FL mainland with my grandparents until mom and dad came up to finally settle in our new home. Regardless of what we will have to do for her, I think we all feel better now that things are out in the open.
 
So glad to hear that you and your dad were able to reach an understanding. I hope that the choice is clear to all when it ahs to be made.
 
Last Update

Well, our sweet little Zoe is with our long passed golden retriever, Dusty. Whe he was still here, they both were best buddies. We tried to syringe feed her some fluids as the vet had instructed us. but eventually she couldn't keep it down. She was already very skinny, and so weak that she wouldn't have been strong enough for anymore treatments. But I know now she is at peace, and I thanked her for being in my life, and told her it was ok for her to go and that Dusty would be waiting for her. I held her head in my lap in her last moments, I never realized how fast that dose worked, but I am glad that she is free from her pain. The memories I have of her will always be with me. Thanx for everyones' replies and condolences.
 
Im sorry to hear that Zoe couldnt make it. :(
I have 3 dogs: a 14 yr old, a 10 yr old and a 6 yr old.
My 14 yr old dog has been through a lot of things. She had seizures, liver problems, heart problems. She also has a tumour in her adrenal gland that cannot be removed. When the vet found out about this tumour, he asked me what I wanted to do. My decision was to let her live and she's been fine for 2 years now. The vet says he cant explain the seizures... she's never had another one.
My 10 yr old dog was diagnosed with Cushing's Syndrome a year ago. She's also doing pretty well, but she does take meds once a week.
My 6 yr old dog has chronic allergies. I have spent thousands of dollars trying to find the best treatment for her. She's even allergic to her own skin bacteria. Despite all the problems, she's a happy dog!

So, I pray every day (and I really mean it!) for God to take their lives if they get pretty sick, since I know I'm not able to make such decision as putting any of my pets to sleep.
 
You certainly have my sympathy. I've been in your shoes and I understand exactly how you feel. I doubt Zoe could have had a better friend or guardian in her life than you were for her.

Our two oldest dogs are both about 13 years old. They don't have any health problems that I'm aware of, but I know that it won't be too many more years before we're facing tough decisions. They are one reason why I'm going to start working few hours at this time in my life. I want to spend more quality time with them while I can.
 
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