this oscar was the first of all my fish babies, got me started with fish fanatics. and only 2 and a half years old. I'm grieving as i would if it had been my beloved 14 yr old dog.what i need help with is her friend. she has been with an albino oscar since the very first days of her life with me, and now he is depressed and not eating. should i get him a friend? leave him alone i dont know and i need help please. it was hard enough to loose her but to see her friend in despair is killing me now.