I promise it's not as hard as it sounds at first! I'm no good with the chemicals and water parameters and all that either, but with everyone's help I manage really well.
I don't know how to remedy your water parameters since you've already got fish in there, but once you do the testing (I recommend the liquid test kits, too. I bought this one at Petsmart, but I can't find it there online), you'll be able to adjust the parameters just fine. It's rather fun playing with the chemicals, too. 
And once your tank is able to establish the necessary bacteria for it to be cycled, it will be stable enough that you won't have fish dying. Just be sure to buy healthy ones in the first place, and research and ask questions here before bringing home anymore.
Some fish are naturally more fragile, but members here can point you towards the better beginner fish that will be hardy.
So don't despair! It really is pretty easy once you get the tank established (stable). Best wishes!!
And once your tank is able to establish the necessary bacteria for it to be cycled, it will be stable enough that you won't have fish dying. Just be sure to buy healthy ones in the first place, and research and ask questions here before bringing home anymore.
So don't despair! It really is pretty easy once you get the tank established (stable). Best wishes!!