Since we are on the subject, my female clown died from my pair. They were/are still juveniles and I'm wondering how to pair another one with the male. The only way I could tell which was which was the thickness of their stripes and then later found out I was right from behavior when I got an anemone...the female got pretty aggressive towards her man and he'd been submissive to her ever since. She was the last to go recently of 7 fish that passed from a parasite plague due to a move to a new house.