It's not an albino, the color variant is called "orange flash". It looks like a male, because the first few dorsal spines are a different color than the rest, which is common in males. You should see the spike develop soon.
haha yeah no worries. I was really confused too. I know she was at least 4 months old. I think all the fry will die but so far the male is helping her guard from the other two females in the tank.