Its unlikely that the filter was too strong for the tetras... I've kept a few serpae tetras in a 20gallon tank that was filtered with an AC500 set at maximum flow, and they had no problems moving around the tank.
Zynthesis - I am also quite curious on how you've come to the conclusion that pH is the problem. If you can further explain to us how you came to that conclusion, it'd be appreciated.
As far as I've experienced, pH has never really played a big role in any of my fish keeping... and I've kept everything from acidic/soft water fish, to basic/hard water fish. My tap water is naturally hard as rocks, but I've never done anything to it to adjust the pH or hardness of my water... and I've never had a problem keeping acidic/soft water fish. I know quite a few people who even keep discus in this kind of water, and they also thrive.
-Richer