I just spoil my oscar very much and i think i expect everyone else to as well (he has a HUGE tank all to himself) and i feed him nothing but the best. I guess b/c they are my favorite cichlid i get upset when people dont act like i do...Lynsey, im sure your tank is gorgeous with the silver dollars in there though...i just am happy with my o (who is still pretty much a baby at 5"). Another cichlid i would really love to have if i had another large tank is a jaguar cichlid, those are way cool!