Even if you put a female with the male, it doesn't mean they will mate
This is true, it is very rare that Oscars mate when there are only two in the tank, they seem to be pretty selective about mates not to mention virtually impossible to sex. If you have the good misfortune of getting them to mate, they will bring top dollar with breeders, and although you would have to say goodbye and get new pets it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world. I have traditionally raised two Oscars together and have never lucked into a pair this way. If it were me I would go with a JD, his mouth may be smaller, but you probably won't notice because his attitude and colors will hide it well