Hey, Tom. I actually started my on-line life through a parenting forum:
www.conductdisorders.com
I really don't think you need to visit there . . . yet. It's great for anyone struggling with teen issues, ADHD, bipolar in children, Aspergers syndrome, etc.
My son has been diagnosed ADHD and ODD. I read every single book my library had to offer on parenting and was still completely clueless as to what to do with my son. The parents in the know were and continue to be an invaluable resource for me. They always have a trick or two up their sleeves.