Ok, i figured it wasnt enough nitrates. Atm my tank is well under stocked, 18 fish in 50g, however im in the middle of cycling a new tank so i will not be adding more. ( would cutting back on my weekly water change fix my problem? those plecos make my gravel look so bad, dam poop machinces)
As for the ph, i wanted to raise it so i may add c02 to my new tank without making the ph even lower. i did my gh/kh tests and these are the results for both my tanks.
50gal (one i was disscussing throughout this thread) kh: 60 GH: 30
my new tank ph:6.0 kh:40 gh:40
The person at the LPS thinks i should buy a couple of bags of a gravel that contains bits of shell, which would increase my buffer aswell as ph. Thoughts on this ?
(guess im need to buy a nitrate additive

for that problem)
How much is needed again 10-20?
Oh i nearly forgot to add, i checked iron for 1st time today, and in my old tank it says i need to change the water, ive got 1.0ppm chelated iron. the test booklet says ideal levels should be 0.25-0.5. I also tested my new tank that is filled wit eco complete, which i was under the impresstion contained health amount of iron. Test says there was none. Im i wrong about eco complete containing iron? or is it more like laterite, and is made to just hold in the irons that the tank contain? bag says iron-enriched

Maybe i mixed up the test tubes and the new tank had the high amount, im gonna retest.