I have a blue ram that seem so picky, I was told she will do fine on flakes but all she does is spit them out. I'm a little concerned about her health (the male I purchased at the same died all of a sudden without anny signs of distress) 29g tank and all tests are good but I have been loosing guppies too. 10% water changes every day, ect. Is there anything I should feed her tht she might accept more? I'm thinking bigger brine shrimp but I hear that the older the brine shrimp the less neutrition they hold. Any suggestions?