I have 4 Red Wag platies and yesterday 2 of them kept going after each other to the point that each of them have damage to their fins, tonight 3 of the 4 are hanging out at the top of the tank and one is hanging out at the bottom. The one at the bottom is a female(i think) and is rather large. I think that i have 2 male and 2 female. Is there any other way to tell other than their "lower" fin?