Adam...so sorry to hear about your brother and your family's loss.
I used to work in ICU and saw people thats lives were ruined because of not wearing a seatbelt, drinking and driving, not wearing helmets on motercycles, playing chicken , etc. Not only is their life ruined or lost needlessly, their families are devistated. Peolpe don't want to thnk that things will happen to them, but they do.
I hope by your sharing here someone will read and think to buckle up.
Where I live we just had 2 teenaged girls died in a wreck. They were in a van with some other kids coming back from a youth group ski trip. The kids were all sleeping...without seatbelts. The van rolled, and these 2 were thrown out and killed. If they would have had seatbelts on, they would have stayed in and been ok.
Be carefou out there, folks.