We are in the process of changing out our crushed coral for sand. We just got back from the local Home Depot and Lowe's. We couldn't find any of the much talked about Southdown playsand. All either store had was QuickKrete and some other brand of play sand. Both were washed and cleaned sand. The one brand (I don't remember the name of it) looked a little whiter and finer than the Quick Krete brand. At any rate, can either type of sand be used? Is there anything special about this Southdown brand that makes it better than any other brands? Thanks in advance for any recommendations.