Relationship help

Bonne46

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So my and gf have been together now for 2 years. In the beginning everything was great, always on phone, loved being with each other and everything. I mean I could remember that I didn't care about sitting at home and just talking to her instead of going out with my friends.

Well during our relationship we had are ups and downs were we would just fight non stop. Well after that happend so frequently I decided to break it off. Now we are technically aren't together but we know were both not going go out and try to be with someone else or anything like that.

Were still not fully together, and she keeps on asking me back and I tell her not yet because I just don't know. I don't know because we argued so much that it just drove me away kinda. I mean I love her and she is always on my mind still but I just have this thing were I'm jjust not ready for her back.

My question is, is this a sign of I am over her, or is more like love and I am just past that lovey dovey stage of the realtionship and more on the lay back type.
 
the chase....
 
how old are you?

good question

it depends what you are arguing about. obviously there is some kind of issue. maybe you are having trouble communicating or maybe you are not meant to be together. the lovey dovey stage doesn't last for ever, in my experience anyways, but if you aren't feeling lovey at all then it might not be right.
 
I'm 21 soon 22.

Like I said I mean she is always on my mind, it's not like I'm not worrying about her throughout the day.
 
im in a similar situation, except distance is what keeps us apart. =( i hate it, i hope you have better luck than i do, just follow what feels right, if it is meant to work out, than it will
 
BAH!!

Man If you dont Miss her, and dont want to be with her always, cant get by without her, then you are prety much over her. Sounds like you are ready to move on to me.

You would know if you werent over her, you would do anything to get her back. (later on you'll do anything to get rid of her!!)

But there's nothing that says the two of you cant go out for a pizza or something and remain friends. if you want to.
 
If you want to work things out, but you're afraid it will be the same, do something different. If you do the same things, you'll get the same result. Just don't keep her on stand by.
 
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