seriously annoyed rant
- Thread starter bluekrissyspike
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Have you thought about trading her a crack rock and some booze for the right to your baby? sounds like she make take you up on it?????
But really this happened to my aunt with her grandchild, she told the my cousin to be the biggest monster she could be when the mom took her for the first visit, and the rottenness scared off the p.o.s mom. (The mom left the baby in the hospital, born way to early with FAS, and was the size of my forearm)
But really this happened to my aunt with her grandchild, she told the my cousin to be the biggest monster she could be when the mom took her for the first visit, and the rottenness scared off the p.o.s mom. (The mom left the baby in the hospital, born way to early with FAS, and was the size of my forearm)
Wow, you are such a good person to be doing this, especially since you'd not even sure he's the dad. I wish you the best in all this, and I really, really hope that the boy ends up in the right hands (yours, obviously).
If it makes you feel any better, my cousin had a very similar situation her now daughter. One of our other relatives had a baby girl and the mother was addicted to alcohol and possibly (probably) drugs. They would leave the baby in her diapers for hours if not days. There was garbage all over their house, covering everything. They never cleaned. Finally, my cousin and aunt were supposed to babysit her and they just did not let her go back. They filed to have the baby taken away (nearly 2 years at this point), and my cousin kept her with her son and daughter who were about 5 and 13 years old at the time. At first the mother seemed to be fine with it and then after a few months decided she wanted to have her back. For a while she was going to rehab and all that, but we all knew she was just going to go back to her old ways. Finally, they proved she was unfit, and my cousin has adopted her. She is the cutest little girl and is now about 4. And not surprisingly, the mother is a drunk once again same as her dad.
So, don't give up hope! It might take some time, but with legal help, you will probably get him.
If it makes you feel any better, my cousin had a very similar situation her now daughter. One of our other relatives had a baby girl and the mother was addicted to alcohol and possibly (probably) drugs. They would leave the baby in her diapers for hours if not days. There was garbage all over their house, covering everything. They never cleaned. Finally, my cousin and aunt were supposed to babysit her and they just did not let her go back. They filed to have the baby taken away (nearly 2 years at this point), and my cousin kept her with her son and daughter who were about 5 and 13 years old at the time. At first the mother seemed to be fine with it and then after a few months decided she wanted to have her back. For a while she was going to rehab and all that, but we all knew she was just going to go back to her old ways. Finally, they proved she was unfit, and my cousin has adopted her. She is the cutest little girl and is now about 4. And not surprisingly, the mother is a drunk once again same as her dad.
So, don't give up hope! It might take some time, but with legal help, you will probably get him.
The correct term, I believe would be Guardian Ad Litem. You can call Social Services/Child Protective Services and they should be able to point you in the right direction. If they/you can prove that she is unfit to care for the child and provide proper supervision without being under the influence of any substance than any court of law would seek to terminate her parental rights. Since your BF is the legal/biological father he would be the next of kin. However the courts do not like to split up siblings groups if it can be at all avoided. (at least here in the states) I would still say your best bet is to call the child protective agency (not sure what they are called in CAD) and let them know, especially if she still has children in her care...
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i'm glad to hear others in this situation have come out on top. i'm planning on doing anything i can to keep this from happening. i'd hate to see her get him just to loose him or worse, give him away again. god only knows what he would go through if she gets her hands on him.
i'll look that up. they are called cas here, children's aid society. she doesn't have custody or visitation with her other kids as far as i know.
lol...that would be good if that could work
i'll look that up. they are called cas here, children's aid society. she doesn't have custody or visitation with her other kids as far as i know.
My goodness, I think you have a right to be a lot more than 'seriously annoyed'!
You have done such a wonderful, generous thing looking after this poor child. I really hope things work out for you.
You have done such a wonderful, generous thing looking after this poor child. I really hope things work out for you.
