They gave me another Julii Cory at the store instead or Ram #3 although I think it's a Leopardus and hope that doesn't cause too much of a problem. Right now the two balloon rams are doing just fine and loving their new home and the ramming is MUCH better than before. Not as much chasing with #1 doing it to #2 a bit but bearable. The cories are more active again. Final tank setup for the 16 gallon tall is:
2 German Blue Balloon Rams
4 Corydoras Trillineatus/Leopardus (4/0 or 3/1)
2 Otocinclus
2 Bumble Bee Gobies
Thanks so much guys. I think we'll be happy for a while assuming I can keep the plants under control now.