Do you have a clown? JMO, but while clowns without anenomes are great, anenomes without clowns tend not to be, in the case of hosting anenomes. There are many that don't host, like the flowers, but if you're planning on getting one that does, you will want to get a clown for it.
In terms of survival, the 'pest' ones like condy's and curly-cues are hardiest, but they can be a threat to other inverts and fish, as can long tentacles and carpets. Pretty well any anenome may threaten your corals--they move around to find the best spot in the tank, and they will sting and kill corals as they move around.
I'd look into the captive raised rose anenomes. More people are reporting success with them, and since they clone themselves well in aquaria, you're not impacting the reef.