dont use play sand....all but two rare sands sold for playgrounds, homes, or construction have harmful chemicals or things that will mess with the water chemistry.
aragonite is best for the tank. dont go cheep in saltwater because youll regret it later on.
also i worked in a fish store and that was a play to get the customer to set up a "cheaper" tank and then have to come back later and redo the whole tank...i never supported it but my past bosses did...dont believe them.
either that or they are just ignorant or dont care about you or your fish