the sound of tapping on the glass may not seem loud to you, but the sound reverberates as vibrations through the water, which can stress the fish. i'd never tap on the glass on my tank of skittish australian rainbows but do occasionally tap very lightly on my oscar's tank to get his attention in a hurry if i need to (like for checking on a scrape, etc).
errrmmm...the tapping is on the outside..if I read the thread correctly...unles you were tapping on the inside...lmao...