I understand that but when I ask for help and I'm told to stop poking, moving and looking at the bowl, (I wasn't even doing the first 2) it's kind of ridiculous. Especially considering looking at the bowl from a chair a good distance away is really not gonna hurt anything. I just don't get it. My betta has been fine with male guppies before. (I'm really not even sure which fish attacked him. The ADFs have claws, so it might have been them)