don't use the dirty old crushed coral. not only does it trap a lot of debris and poop, but it hardens the water and raises pH, which is really not necessary for almost any freshwater fish. for freshwater, make sure you are using an inert (silicon-based) sand rather than one that is made of calcium carbonate or aragonite. pool filter, construction, play, and synthetic sands are all safe, though synthetic sands might potentially be abrasive if you have bottom feeders.