Hey here's one I actually know a lot about. I have been involved in heavy mobile eqipment mechanics for most of my life. The days of real rubber being used in o-rings is pretty much gone, and modern o-rings unless they specify otherwise are designed specifically to work with modern petrolium lubricants, in the old days Gaskets were used because many oils broke down rubber o-rings. modern Durom o-rings will not react to anything but the harshest of solvents. As I don't know for sure what o-rings are being used, I wouldn't garantee that you will have no problem, but it would be very difficult to actually find and purchase an o-ring these days that petrolium product would hurt. IMO food grade oil would make more sense in the aquarium, remember that once the o-ring is in place the need for lubricant no longer exists. O-rings tend to grab by nature, so the lube is needed to assure assembly without damage, so the worry about veggy oil or shortening not staying there is not that big. If I were to use a petrolium product I would use vaseline. In my industry, vaseline is known as the fail safe assembly lube, nothing reacts to it, it doesn't plug anything up, and there are no cemical additives that will break down and change the make-up of it. it is the only commonly used lubricant that will pass through a 1 micron filter without impeding flow. Most mechanics that I know carry vaseline in their trucks for critical or specialty assemblies.