I'm a newbie whos tank has only been cycled a week. I was doing the same as you. Fishy cycle. Obsessing over measurements. Doing 70% pwc daily or more. testing my water 3x day. Questioning the use of Prime and my tap water (my tap often has nitrates I learned). The holiday weekend came up and I had too much stress, so I said "sorry fish, your on your own for a while". I tested my water 3 days later, and I've been 0 since. What a joy!