Mr. Robert,
I don't like sand either...
--Really, I'm shocked at this. I've had great success with sand. I think it is easy, as long as you absolutely do not use anything organic. Sand combines easily with any number of sub or sub-substrates. For a 'natural' look, it is very hard to beat. Rumors of compacting and or clouding issues when replanting are grossly overstated (dare I say M&UL status), IMO.
But I'm also surprised that you let sand get the better of you. I like to expand my skills and overcome those pratfalls that 'get' a lot of people in this hobby. It seems that someone with your skill and experience could easily figure it out. Perhaps you have no need, hence the lack of desire. I'm just saying that for the reason you listed (anoxic problems), you should be able to handle that and have great success with a sand
substrate.
...anoxic issues there in the past...
--Mr. Subliminal (MTS) says you (MTS) should perhaps (MTS) give something (MTS) like MTS a try. They will utilize the substrate well and often, keeping it well 'stirred' and unlikely to become anoxic.
Flourite and its relatives are superb plant substrates...
--Certainly they are, but for people on a budget there are plenty of alternatives that will give great results for far less money. If money is not an issue, Florite is a most reasonable choice of the available substrates. If there is something better, they are only now inventing it.
Jamie,
I also agree with wetmanNY's reply. A good substrate that provides a high CEC is going to be to your benefit. Your substrate can become a 'bank' for nutrients making management of the rooted plants easier.
There are better substrates than the one mentioned.
HTH
PP