RAy...what size tank is that you have ?
My rams do get a bit pushy when they're guarding thier eggs/fry...but they never get dangerously so. One pair I have in a 20long with 3 female guppies and 2 ottos. They just shoo them away when they get too close.
The other tank is a 29..and there's plenty of room for the other fish to scoot away if they trespass. The rams just shoo them off.
I'm sure they'll settle down after the eggs/fry are removed. Mine usually go back to ignoring everyone else pretty quickly. And rams will get testy with one another off and on...even a bonded pair...though I have to say, the pair I have in my 20long are VERY good to each other.
Maybe you could add some other cave/plant/log type decorations in there temporarily for folks to hide out in while the rams are being "parental". The eggs only take a couple of days to hatch, they should be able to handle it till then I would think...unless mom and pop are getting REALLY nasty. IN that case, try to think of something to use as a divider for now.
Update:
The eggs I was waiting on are failures..I removed them this morning. I don't think mom had any success with the ones she had left with her either. I just think they were duds. Not sure if they were even fertile. The two were newly introduced and the female kept chasing him off during the courting faze. I didn't see them spawn so I don't know if he got to them or not.
The fry are doing great. MOst of them have chosen a corner to group in..with a few wandering off on thier own. I'll see if I can get a pic of them with my new 5.1 mega pixel camera I got for Christmas this year !
Oh, did another small water change this am...