Leopardess, thanks for the link to the article - how weird! I know there must be a specific name for these ventral fins, because biologists have names for everything. Too bad that the article just called them "modified ventral fins."
graphicdesigner, thanks for the head's up on the feeling of sick fish. I'll be sure to keep an eye out for that sort of behavior. (Who does your hair, man?)
Mopar, yuck about them tasting everything, but it makes sense.
patoloco, they do seem like they are shaking hands. By "communicating" I think I meant greeting each other. I certainly wasn't thinking that they are holding conversations about when I'm going to feed them or their opinions on their tank decor.
Roan, I can relate to the horse analogy. I used to have an Arab, but fish are all I have time for these days.
echo and stingray, it appears as if they are taste testing each other. Ewww.
I watched mine some more today, and they also touch the glass to see how close they are to the wall.