As some of you know, Ive had my jack dempsey for about 12 months. It was about 1.5 inches when I got it so Im guessing its about 14 or 15 months old. It will only eat a few kinds of food (wardley tropical flakes, gammarus, and sometimes freeze dried bloodworms and snails), I could never get it to eat pellets of frozen foods or anything like that. Around christmas when my dad died I didnt feel like doing much and didnt do a water change for about a month. I feel bad when I look at the fish because I feel it might have had a better life if someone else would have bought it. I keep thinking my dempsey is small for its age, its almost 7 inches. How big is the average dempsey of this age?